We truly believe that parents play a very important role in supporting their kids to prepare for competitive exams or achieve a difficult goal. Here are a few ways in which parents can support their children during their preparation journeys similar to our parents:
Creating a study environment
Parents should ensure that their children have a good study environment at home with few distractions, good lighting, proper study, tables, stationery, and books, as well as have some discussions around classwork as well as homework at home.
Good food and nutrition
Our mother, being a doctor, ensured that we had good, healthy meals on time. Even simple meals such as roti sabzi, dal rice and milk, fruits, and dry fruits can help keep health good and minds sharp. Sufficient water intake was essential to follow.
Listening to problems
Even though you may be a working parent, you should try to take time out of your schedule to discuss school and academics or even play games when needed.
Helping them stay curious
Parents can create an environment where children have books at home. Our parents used to read one or two pages of encyclopaedia before school every morning or before going to bed at night. They ensured that we stayed curious. We used to make big paintings and artwork together. They ensured the best quality products and stationery for us. It is best to allow them to spend time doing puzzles, reading novels and playing games such as mechanics or even Lego, which helps them stay curious!
Planning some fun outings and trips
Our parents, even with few financial constraints, took us on a lot of trips within and outside India, and as we took these trips, we became global citizens. It used to be the best quality and fun-filled family time together. When you travel together, you spend quality time together and help them learn about new things. As children grow up, they also learn the importance of managing finances and saving money to go on such trips.
Trusting your children
Our parents always respected us, and our choices and only provided us with guidance but never forced us to pursue something. Parents who follow a similar approach can ensure that their children do not fear or feel pressured by them.
Throughout our childhood and the IIT preparation journey, our parents have been pillars of support and helped us in academic, personal and professional aspects. We really wish you are also able to create a similar environment for your kids and help them achieve their true potential.
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Mentor and Mom is an initiative by Dr. Monika Mittal and her two IITian sons, Ameya Mittal and Sarthak Mittal. With our enriched experience and practice over the years, we provide mentoring and effective study tips to help you prepare for JEE, NEET, and other exams. We aim to build a happy, healthy, and motivated student community!
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